This is probably one of the most surprising things about ENFPs.
ENFPs have a genuine excitement for life and are full of natural curiosity about the world and the people in it.I have met older ENFPs who easily appear 20 years younger because of the zeal that they continue to have for life. How to love this part of us: Engage us in new thoughts or ideas.I often feel like I am just too much for people and since I was young I have always wondered if I’m encroaching on people’s space, just by how I love them.Human connection is something ENFPs thrive off of and it is something we not only crave, but something we need to feel balanced. ENFPs are people who need verbal praise often, especially from the people we care about. How to love this part of us: This is a difficult one to write about without seeming really needy.It is one of the things that stands out most about our type and something that we value most about ourselves. Engaging our minds is one of the quickest ways to really connect with us.
Tell us what things you are currently wondering or thinking about and ask us the same thing.The clincher is that while we want to know ALL about you, we will often hold back in sharing much about who we are and what we need from the people we do life with.Growing up and even today, I’ve often felt that many people feel closer to me than I do to them.It is one of the ways we make sense of life and having someone willing and unassuming enough to help us by listening to us process is gold.This is a hard one to admit, but it’s true of every ENFP I’ve ever known.And realize that if we are volunteering personal bits of information with you, it’s a big deal. What this means for the people who share space with us is that we are often coming to revelations about things while we are speaking.